While there are careers and aspirations to absorb our time, someone who is truly into you will find a way to focus on you, as well, and not employ easy outs, like this one. Busy with what? Trying to binge-watch the entire "Breaking Bad" series? Taking two-hour naps? Watching endless YouTube videos while wasting time chatting with your friends on Facebook about how weird this guy is for being interested in you?
But, if you think about it, even people like the President of the United States can find time to take his wife out on dates. Ask yourself, are you a busy person?
There are probably a ton of things that take up your time. There are 24 hours in a day and nobody is completely devoting all of her attention to something during all 24 of those hours. But according to the Mitchems, this isn't an excuse you should be making for your partner. No excuses," they say. They may not respond as quickly to a text as they'd like, or call every night like before.
But if they want you in their life, they'll enjoy keeping in contact with you. They'll want you to know what's going on with them. If your relationship is failing, you might fight a lot. When that happens, you might make excuses for them by blaming work for being super stressful or writing it off as them being in a bad mood. In some cases, your partner really may be stressed and that will cause them to be more irritable than usual. If that's the case, your relationship will get back to normal in no time.
But if it's been happening for some time, your relationship may be in trouble. If your partner is inconsistent, or unreliable, and you keep making excuses as to why you stay, that's not a good thing. You can't expect anyone to change for a relationship, no matter how in love with you they are.
But a healthy relationship requires both people to want it and to actively work through conflict. So, what do you do? If you realize that you've been making excuses for your partner because you don't want to acknowledge the fact that things aren't going well, Ponaman says you need to ask yourself why.
How far are you willing to go to sacrifice your own happiness? There's absolutely nothing wrong in wanting to turn your failing relationship around.
Should I continue waiting for her? Is she playing games with me? Share Facebook. Why does she keep making excuses? Add Opinion. Wow never thought Id have to say this to a guy but never bring up the relationship status unless its clear that she would be open to it.
Quite frankly she tired of hearing the same old questions from you. If you can't wait longer than 2 months then she's not "the one". Hang out with her as usual and don't mention it again. When you are ready to give up then just give up in actions by backing off and don't say anything. If I was her and you ended it after 2months because of this then I wouldn't feel too bad about it because Id think I wasn't that special to you if you could walk away so soon because I'm not comfortable yet.
I wouldn't think that you would be a very understanding mate in the future either. That actually may be what you are making her question about the relationship. I guarantee you, back off with the words but continue to do the same things you're doing. I know its tough but pretend she's just a friend you are trying to get to know. You might want to back off the "I love you's" too.
Only say it when it's really appropriate, not every time you hang up the phone 2 or 3 times a day lol. Good Luck. Is this still revelant? I think you should get yourself a girlfriend and she how she is.
If she likes you can tell straight away and if you notice a difference then say I'm crazy about you and always have been but you are wasting my time so I have moved on You sound like an amazing guy so why waste anymore time on a girl you may get or may not get.
You are only young ones so make the most of it Chine up make her do the running you have done your bit and if you are really meant to be you will be together in the end : all the best :.
She kept mind messing me from kissing her for about the first 2 weeks, lol but in texts she told me she wanted it more than anything. If she has a physical attraction, chemistry attraction, etc.
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